Life's not fair, and life's not easy. And do you want to know why? Because it's all a balancing act.
Standing on stable ground versus juggling on a highwire.
Ambition versus aggression.
Enjoying food versus overindulging.
Turning the other cheek versus being a doormat.
Frugal versus spendthrift.
Being a leader versus being a despot.
Where to fall on the extremist spectrum? Or perhaps to settle in the extreme edges on a spectrum of mediocrity? How do I achieve balance in myself as people around me strive to achieve their own? How do we balance each other, equalize one another?
Tact versus little white lies.
Healthy confidence versus inflated ego.
Letting people live their own lives versus standing by while their lives derail.
Fundamentalist versus noncommittalist.
Cautious versus killjoy.
I took a theatre arts class once called simply "Movement." One of the warm-up exercises we did at the beginning of each session was a deceptively simple one. Stand with feet and legs pressed close together, arms down at your sides. Now, rise up on your tiptoes, as high as you can go. Don't waver; stay steady. When Mark the professor walks through the ranks of his students and softly nudges the small of your back, don't lose your balance. Don't step forward or raise your arms. Make the most imperceptible shift in balance so that you can maintain the stance indefinitely. We could never predict when we'd put our heels back on the floor.
Impetuous versus carpe diem.
Curiosity versus nosiness.
Assuaging curiosity versus TMI.
Living versus existing.